“My dear friends, no matter what wrong the other person does, if you are disturbed, there must be something in you that you overlook… It is most difficult for people to look within and find the source of the disturbance in themselves. One of the most favorite tendencies of mankind, is the one that says “you are doing it to me” — making the other person guilty… One human being blames the other, one country blames the other, one group blames the other. This is a constantly ongoing process at this state of development. It is indeed one of the most harmful and illusory processes imaginable.” (PL #180)