“Only when each one grows to his ultimate, to his and her inherent potentials, can the relationship become more and more dynamic and alive. This must be done individually and mutually. When relationship is approached in that way, it will be built on a rock and not on sand. No fear will ever have room under such circumstances. Feelings will expand, and security about the self and each other will grow. Each day and each hour will be a mirror to the inner state of either or both partners and therefore to the relationship. Whenever there is friction or deadness, there must be something stuck, something blind, something that ought to be seen. There must be some interaction between the two people, which is unclarified. If this is understood and properly handled, not only will growth proceed at maximum speed, but happiness, bliss, the feeling of meaningful living and deep profound experience, and ecstasy will grow into forever deeper and more beautiful dimensions.” (PL #180)